Tracy McMillan thinks there is someone that deserves your love before your spouse.

That person is you. After a blog post of hers, Why You're Not Married became one of the most widely read of any on that topic (or others) on the Huffington Post, she began using her platform to encourage people to see that they are already whole and complete.

Her message speaks to all, but most directly to women who are looking for a husband to 'complete' their lives. She spoke with Oprah about the importance of our relationship with ourselves, and says that if we don't have love for ourselves first, a transcendent relationship with another is going to be difficult.